Bluemoon,
I am sorry this happened twice, I like what chaotic said. It was just a bad day for both of you and she doesn't know you so there can be no judgmental thought on her part. I like that she was very appologetic as well. I would definately give her another try.
As to your other T I am saddened that she called you worrying about her time rather than checking in to see how you are doing.
Hang in there ok, you will meet with one of these new ones soon!