I have jealously issues. Mine stem from my past. In general I have a hard time trusting men. Probably because of my dad. When I have these feelings I try to figure out why I am having them. IMO it's worth a little bit of soul searching to find out why. I do agree with some of Star_lites views. She does have some good points. You also need to think about your values, and morals in a relationship. For example. I would never let my bf, go just to visit a girl. He knew this about me before we ever commeted into this relationship, and he feels the same way. Now if he was to give a girl a ride home like after work or something of that nature, I'm not going to think anything about it. I do think that if your finding that your bf is with holding the truth from you about certain things that you don't like, than there could be something going on. I think when anyone starts getting serious in a relationship it's best to say what you like, and don't like.