Hey everyone.. Just wondering if anyone has some advice. I met this guy over 6 months ago. He was clearly interested in me and was always asking to take me out, and just all in all, was always being really sweet to me. I had my brick walls up, but finally after 6 months of getting to know him, the walls came down. I returned the feelings. but as soon as I did, he got scared off and now his walls are up. He even admits that his defences have been up for a long time.

I think he's perfect for me, I believe the only problem is that as soon as he saw I was available and willing to commit to him, his walls went up to keep me out.

My question is, how do I brake down these walls, or atleast get around them?