Hello fellow Forum members,

I am feeling a rush of adrenalin infused anger. My husband just said, excitedly, that friends from out of town were coming to visit for four days at Thanksgiving. They were making reservations at a hotel but would be "happy" to stay with us. Clearly my husband wants them to stay with us. Three days ago I said I would consider going somewhere with this family but was not interested in hosting them and all the work that involves--in addition to my son being home from college. I am the bad guy in all this--The worst thing is this has happened repeatedly over the years. We have been in therapy for over a year, I am ready to tell him the only option is divorce--what could he be thinking. I made my opinion and my needs clear and again they were discounted again. How can I be so stupid to still be here and be so angry again.
I have real affection for the family that is going to visit our town but they are very high maintenance, very high. Right now I am simply planning to visit my family out of town. Thanks