Marc,
Thanks for letting us know how you are doing...

It sounds as though you have done as much as you can at this point, when your wife returns there will be changes that the two of you will face together. Love helps greatly, but guidance by professionals can go a long way towards helping both of you...as individuals and as a couple.
Your willingness is essential, and you may find that she will respond with less fear after those first few "awkward" days of her being home again.

Obviously, you are aware that no one can predict what is going to happen...that is a given for all of us. We also understand that we will do the best we can; most times that is half the battle. Willingness and determination...shows very well in your attitude and concern.

I hope you have found a therapist you trust; it helps so much to know you are not alone. An objective opinion/suggestions will help you clear some of the worries you may be feeling...

My best wishes to you,
Catherine