No, it hasn't been my experience that they grow out of that goofy stage. My husband is a very responsible individual but sometimes I feel like I'm dealing with a 12 year old. But then again it could be said that I'm entirely too serious. We balance each other out.

He is an excellent father that has always been hands on. He goes absolutely ape **** when someone makes the comment they have to "babysit" their own kids. They're yours, it's called being a parent. I cannot imagine having a better father for my children. He still does some really stupid stuff sometimes, but where it matters (kids and husband stuff) he is absolutely wonderful. I really do not have a complaint.

He is also an excellent husband. The kids and I absolutely come first in his life. He works very hard to make sure that we live a comfortable life. What more could I ask for?

If you can't see yourself dealing with these same issues 30 years later, then I'd say find someone you're more comfortable with. You either accept him warts and all or move on.