Thanks Rap, I am applying to be her guardian as she is developmentally delayed. i am tired. I was so totally difficult to get near to and love and my Jane did it. I will ask for her guidance now. If any of you believe in this type of thing, Please think of my Jane in Maine from the coast of new Jersey learning to live and swim in the ocean and then moving inland to my river. Ask her to give us guidance, show us the way. Thanks all.