aww ((((((starlite))))))) lets not get hung up on that - the important thing here that seems to have gotten lost in the shuffle is that you wrote the poem in the first place
that would have been hard
it was brave
I hope it was healing for you
i hope it was healing to those who read and could relate to it
there is no shouldnt in there at all
you are a survivor - you are gettin on wiht your healing journey and that makes you a
for posting - I really appreciate both this thread the discussion it prompted which made me think about my own journey as well and you!
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet