Even if her IQ is low .. she needs to learn how to act and be. You are strong and you do deserve a vacation if she was anything like i said i was.

Just remember you will get respect and having to put her elsewhere i know is hard and like i said she will wine and cry and do all she can to get back .. but you cant give in and neither should hubby. I know her IQ is low but still she needs to learn. You are a excellent mom to help and go through what you have good luck on things and keep us informed.