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Sep 22, 2009, 09:09 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Posts: 2,779
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Hi Pejae,
I love your avatar, by the way. It's beautiful.
If this separation is going to cause such anguish for you, what is it going to do to your gf? You have not talked much about that.
This might be an ideal time for you to look into therapy for your issues of insecurity. You seem to have your gf's best interest's at heart and that is a good thing. However, you yourself do have issues. Would you be able to use this time to address those? Or, could you use this time to do something for yourself, such as take up meditation? It may help with some of the insecurities you experience. I am not sure of your background but some of the philosophies behind a few of the meditation styles are very helpful with promoting inner peace and serenity. Just a suggestion.
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 Vickie
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