I REALLY like the sound of her! A LOT. She already feels so much more caring than Desk T. I loved how she related the BPD to trauma...it sounds like a much more understanding way of looking at it, and like she sees another pathway to healing (dealing with trauma) besides the strict behavioral stuff your other T was doing (if that's even what she was doing!) She sounds great

As for whether or not you should cancel the other trial Ts....if you cancel, will you always be wondering what they would have been like? If you think you'll be left with that, then I would go ahead and go. If you think that this is the T for you and you won't be wondering about the other ones, then I would cancel and save my insurance visits and money!

One thing you could do is see this T for a few appointments to see how it feels and THEN decide if you want to check out the other Ts. I think that might be what I would do.

I'm so glad that you had such a good experience today. You were WAY overdue for a good T experience!!!