When I first started with T, my eye contact was non-existent- not just with T but with everyone. I thought eveyone one was looking at me as I was walking down the street. He took me out to see if it was true. (it still is in my mind). Anyway, we have had several conversations about maintaing eye contact in t. He says he finds it really difficult to connect with me when I dont look at him. I suppose that's the issue with Ts and eye contact. Somtimes I just cant do it if we are talking about something difficult. So we try and work on it, but I am just terrible at it!