I am SO happy for you!!I have a big smile on my face though I am not a banana. Flat tire T sounds really good for you. Maybe you will even tell her your name for her one day! My T is eclectic though she leans more toward behavorist and CBT. It's good because it means they are flexible. Desk T was definitely not flexible.

I think you should see the other T or Ts just to compare, though if it were me, decisions are so hard for me that I probably would just go to t he first one. I never shopped around for a T; I just used whoever was recommended but I see the advantages now, for doing that. Flat tire T seems to fit, but who knows if another one may also fit? Also, what about the ED? Did you discuss whether she had experience with it?

I think it would be a good experience for you to see that there are more Ts out there than Desk T, and more than one choice. Just my opinion.

I wonder what desk T would say or will say if you tell her you are quitting and why. I think the consensus here is probably that you don't need an appointment for closure, but think about whether you do or not. Maybe she won't get defensive. I would want closure with a T I saw that long, but that's just me. You have to do what is best for you.