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Originally Posted by exoticflower
Peaches, okay, now that I have read what you recently wrote and that makes total sense to me. Instead of saying she didn't have time, she could have said something even generic at least saying that she read your email and look forward to discussing it with you, etc.
I wonder what the "I don't have time for you peaches" is stirring up for you?
I do agree your T could have said something else a little nicer, but I think the real issue is why is that triggering you so strongly on what she wrote. :-) Sounds like a good topic for therapy. ((((Little peach))))
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Hi Exoticflower,
My t's response stirred up my own feeling that i'm invisible and not worth caring about. It's not my t's fault; I know it's how i feel about me. But it still affects my relationship with t. Once i feel blown off, i distance. Once i feel that pain in my heart that feels like rejection, i'm already on my way to withdrawing from t. I hate being sensitive and can't figure out why the smallest-type rejections (or what seem like rejections) throw me into such despair. I don't know how to stop feeling/reacting that way because logic and intellectual understanding don't cause my internal feelings or reaction to change. It confuses me as to why this is the case?