I dont really feel guilty. T knows I post on here, and I think he is glad I have somewhere to connect with people in the same position as me. He supports whatever I need to do for me. In fact, I'm sure it was him who brought it up as an option to help me.

I think as long as we dont use Ts name or any personal details about them, its ok, and they probably expect it.

I would also be interested in what is classed as too much info. I dont think I have read anything that I would class as too much. This forum is for us to understand what is going on for us, and to help us grow with T, so I think there does need to be some degree of detail in our posts, but I would never know who anyone T is based on their posts