aww ((((((starlite))))))) lets not get hung up on that - the important thing here that seems to have gotten lost in the shuffle is that you wrote the poem in the first place

that would have been hard

it was brave

I hope it was healing for you

i hope it was healing to those who read and could relate to it

there is no shouldnt in there at all

you are a survivor - you are gettin on wiht your healing journey and that makes you a for posting - I really appreciate both this thread the discussion it prompted which made me think about my own journey as well and you!