The question has been asked and please let me attempt to answer it.....women want what men want...EXCEPT...they don't want it while being oogled and the thought processes being directed to what carnel delights are in store.....they want to feel validated...(i.e. their actual interests and feelings taken into account)...I have a good man....but doggonit..I get tired of feeling that everying is a sex negotiation...In other words, If I do THIS....he'll do THAT...why can't we just care for one another and trust that things will work out to our advantage....THIS...is what drives me crazy!!!!! It's not a negotiation folks...!!! It's 2 people caring about each other...and if thats working right...then everything else will truly fall into place....BELIEVE ME! grace