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Originally Posted by salukigirl
That makes a lot of sense. He also talks about how our friend Shaana makes the BEST chicken wings. I guess it does make sense that I have that need to nurture but at the same time I don't want to be a mom figure, I want to be a girlfriend.
I guess I am just afraid that he has feelings for someone else. I don't know why I just do. I'm not afraid to be alone, I'm just afraid to have my heart broken AGAIN.
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Old hurts tend to stick, and it is hard to not project them on your current relationship.
Then again, this is coming from someone who still holds resentment towards her husband for things that have happened from recently to 12 years ago!
Hurt is hard to let go of. I can't cook for anything! But man, if I didn't manage the appointments, family outings and sleepovers, my husband would be LOST. There are things you do well that he appreciates and surely brags to his friends and fellow students about.
Work on being ok with YOU. Once you love yourself it is easier to love others. I know this seems nearly impossible, and though I have managed a lot more balance in my life I still struggle with it! Hang in there!
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