oh, i find it difficult to keep up too. and that's just with the threads that I start . our little subform here on PC does move quite fast and it gets especially difficult if you aren't able to keep up each day.

you're one of the ppl here who i used as a bit of a "model" in getting closer to pdoc - so keep talking woman!! i initially joined PC to get support over terminating with my old-T quite abruptly. pdoc has always been great, but i've come to appreciate him a lot more these past 9 months and a lot of that has to do with being able to vicariously share what others have with their Ts. it makes me think, "ok, what pdoc and i share is ok too".

because i find it so difficult to know what "good" boundaries are, i freak out massively whenever another boundary with pdoc & i gets shifted. i went through so much angst when he gave me his mobile number last year and told me to call whenever. i really, really, really freaked out.

but knowing that other ppl call their Ts between sessions, that it's possible to have a healthy T-type relationship outside the bounds of the therapy hour... that has helped immensely.