(((graceland))) I agree with IndieSoul completely. You shouldn't have to ask anyone else how they see you, what matters is how you see yourself. Do you feel you undervalue yourself? If you do, change that! No one else can change it for you, no one else can make you aware of it - only you can. Be you, give yourself credit for being who you are. You don't need anyone else's opinion, only your own. You deserve to be confident in yourself, and you deserve to believe in yourself.