They just talked about this new procedure that can help with incontinence (especially after having a baby). I don't know if it would be for you, but it's something to keep in mind. I think it was called Genitide, or something like that, and it involves a laser. It also supposedly makes you look younger "down there." Look at http://www.thedoctorstv.com/ about the show on Tuesday, with Dr. Ruth.