Unfortunately, we have that "mentally ill" stigma no matter where we go.

When I got fed up with dating (at the ripe age of 21, and not that you are looking for a relationship, but the advice applies) my mom gave me the best advice:

"Go out and do things you are interested in. You will find people who have the same interests!"

So I took my ball python to a herpitological society meeting (I know, I am one WEIRD female!) and my now husband (INTRAVERT!) walked up to me and introduced himself.

Look into hobby groups that interest you. You don't have to know everything about it, or even do the chosen hobby well, but you can learn more about it while meeting new people. You will already have something in common with them, like us here!

I don't know if you are shy (never has that word been used to describe me, so sometimes I am clueless when it comes to shyness) but I hope this helps!