Thanks so much! You all gave great advice! I think I'll TRY the patience thing. As hard as it'll be.

Jerrymichele, He's actually not my boyfriend. Basically what happend, is he pursued me for 6 months, tried to get me to let him take me out. I wasn't really interested in him, but i loved talking to him, so I kept talking to him over msn/text. Then one night, I couldn't sleep because I couldn't stop thinking about him. I gave him a chance and let him take me out. We saw eachother about 4-5 times after that. I was falling hard for him, then almost out of the blue he wanted to stop seeing eachother. We still talk, and from conversations we've had, he told me about a talk he had with his best friend where his best friend told him "your defenses are so high, I don't think anyone can get through anymore" and then he admitted that he's a brick wall. This is what leads me to believe that the problem is that his walls are up, because it wasn't until I showed that I was falling for him, that he got scared off.