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Originally Posted by pachyderm
I react to the part about "you don't really believe that do you?" as that it is an attempt to control. To reverse or deny what the person (SAWE) has just said. Maybe you don't see it as a dangerous attempt to control, but I often do.
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I thnk it may be in the reading, Pachy. Not as in "You don't
really believe
that,
do you?!" but more like "[Oh my goodness] you don't really believe that (when I tell you that UPR is everywhere). Do you?"
More of a wondering tone. She didn't proceed to try to persuade me, so no I didn't take it as controlling. And I think I was secretly hoping to be persuaded.