So I've been with this girl for a few months now and lately we've been talking less and less and having a few problems. When I try and talk to her about it she brings up her ex who she's been in love with since she was a kid she says its not her fault for wanting to hold on to memories of him when shes having problems because it reminds her she was once very happy. it just me or is she pretty much saying shes still in love with him and im like second best? because that's how it sounds to me.