Akemi,
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Originally Posted by akemi.love6
so my boyfriend has been going though some really tough times. i been trying to comfront him and make him feel better, but he don't seem to care one way or the other, he just keep telling me that he is tired of trying and he will nver be anything so i should just leave him alone. hearing him say this really hrut my feelings cause i love and care for him alot. anything i say that could help him he just find a way to make it not work.
someone please tell me, what should i do???
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You know, you could always break up with him. I know you said you love him, but if hanging out with him gets to be too much of a drag, then it's time to leave.
After all, you sought out a relationship in the first place because you like the happiness a relationship brings you, right?
So why hang out with a wet blanket who robs you of this potential joy?
Also... is it your responsibility to fix his problems?? No... he has to do that for himself!!
Anyway... you may not like my advice but I am speaking from experience here. I was in a long term relationship with a guy who was depressed. I finally reached my fill of the constant "woe is me" crap.
Dumping him was best thing I ever did.
Good luck to you,
Peppermint