There is nothing to be ashamed about with having anxiety. I know it sucks. If you tell your Dr. to adjust your meds it should really help you. I take paxil for my anxiety, and it really has made a big, big difference in my life. Before the meds I couldn't even get into a car. I'm able to do that now. If you don't feel comfy telling bf now, than wait until your meds are adjusted.