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Originally Posted by Dr.Muffin
pachy, anger is warranted.
looking back at the whole picture and realizing that your mother was clearly unstable and dealing with her own issues is fine. understanding that she may not have meant to harm you is fine. imagining that maybe she's not a horrible person and if she had gotten help and been well she had the potential to be a great mother is fine.
but the reality is, you were harmed. the person that was supposed to love and protect you did number on you, and anger is warranted.
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You know the people who I am more angry with now than with my mother? All those people who did not help me when I needed help. All those people who do not look into causes, who want to put patches on things, and who claim to be doing something while only covering it up. Those are the people who anger me most. The ones who deceive. I guess they
too do not do it "intentionally" but they are also ones that I relied upon, and many did not provide help while claiming that they did. Because I was too inexperienced and wanted to believe, I was deceived.