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Sep 24, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2009
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Originally Posted by akemi.love6
so my boyfriend has been going though some really tough times. i been trying to comfront him and make him feel better, but he don't seem to care one way or the other, he just keep telling me that he is tired of trying and he will nver be anything so i should just leave him alone. hearing him say this really hrut my feelings cause i love and care for him alot. anything i say that could help him he just find a way to make it not work.
someone please tell me, what should i do???
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First and formost, Akemi, make sure you are taking care of YOU. It's hard when the people you love hurt. Don't get so wrapped up in what he is going through that you neglect yourself!
Sometimes, we get to the point in depression where nothing seems to make it better. I have struggled with clinical depression and anxiety disorder since puberty (that was back when Moby was a minnow, but I digress). My depressive episodes and panic attacks used to infuriate my husband. He was trying to fix what ever was causing the problem. Unfortunately, there may be nothing an outside souce CAN fix. You can be supportive and suggest that he see a doctor or mental health professioinal, but please PLEASE don't forget to take care of yourself. If it becomes too much, take a break from eachother until he gets help and improves or decide if, for your OWN mental health, you need to break up.
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