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Old Sep 24, 2009, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by jacq10 View Post
I told her it bothered me that the author referred to therapists as "role playing" and just generally not being authentic in their client relationships, and that at the end of the day they don't really care about us and we are just essentially their job.
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I don't for a minute believe that this is true of most therapists out there. My T told me once that the therapist part of his person was a very genuine part of his person. So perhaps they do try to discover in themselves what you need, but that does not mean they are not being authentic with you. If they didn't care about us, I don't think they could do very much to genuinely help us. I'm happy to know that your therapist confirmed this.
Thanks for this!
jacq10