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Sep 24, 2009, 06:49 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2009
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Originally Posted by onlymedid
You are SO right! I really want to ask about it...it is way tempting! 
I am going to try to let it go. It's such a hard thing to let go of because I worry that they are talking about me or that they are conspiring something....ok, maybe there is some paranoia there, too.
I think you are right, about them talking about something inconsequential. I am trying to imagine that they are planning a surprise party for me!  |
{{{onlymedid}}} 
Work can be a place that insecurities run WILD. I swear in many ways it is like high school! 
I have kinda the opposite problem. My boss has been accused of showing favortism to a couple of us because he has us on more projects then anyone else. He's been accused of it with me becuase he has put me on commitees and I've been included in meetings where every other attendee has been a higher level than I. He isn't really showing favortism as such. He is really good at knowing our strengths and playing them up. 
Could it be your boss is concerned about relying too much on you? Could he be worried he asks too much and gives you too much to do? Think of it this way (I am), he values you so much, he doesn't want to burn you out! 
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