Well you are trying, I am sorry that she isn't. I've been married for 24 yrs. we knew each other since we were teenagers, sure there hhas been rough times but both have to work at it, not just one person. I hope you can convince her, maybe a different counselar may help, or maybe you may need to go seperately to a therapist. I wish I could help you both, it is ashame to possibly lose a marriage due to stubborness on her part. I wish you two a lot of luck and love.
"darkeyes"