Thanks for all the support. I just picked up the book Why Mars & Venus Collide by John Gray. This book specifially addresses how to deal with stress and how men and women react differently.

His job prospects are not good. And since I posted, things are going better. Ieven have an appointment with a counselor. I have not told my husband yet (when I first suggested my seeing a counselor he said if that's what I want he would support then a few hours later he said he doesn't think I need that and to talk to him). I would love to tlak to him, however when I try to talk about my feelings he feels like I am attacking him and becomes sarcastic.

SoI am going to read this book and talk with a counselor, and most likely bring him into the mix regarding counseling.

It's kind of funny in that since hunting season has started he has been a bit more upbeat and "grabby" with me. Maybe it's the whole, I am trying to provide for my family with a kill that has sparked it. Good thing hunting season goes until mid January.

Again, thanks for the advice.