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Originally Posted by pachyderm
You said I didn't allow people to help me, or something like that. But people can actually help even when their helpee is not cooperating. They can do it in spite of the helpee; they do not let the helpee's fears stop them from helping.
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oh, okay. i see what you mean now. i think what i meant was, how will you know when its safe to be vulnerable if you never let yourself be vulnerable to see what a person does. but i get your point!