I thank you for the advice, and I shall take it to heart, its just so hard to just forget about her even though I know she does not feel the same way as I do about her, I mean why does one have to go through all the pain and torment to just find that right person the person who will love us back and just be there for us when we need sum1, love is just so complicated and I just wish I could get over her just like that but i can't and it will take time, but what I really fear is what if I convince myself that I'm over her and then I see her and all the feeling come rushing back.