You know you can find a lot of single women if you would look. I don't know you, but from what your saying is that most women think that your a player. If you want a long term relationship you should find a single woman. One thing you could try is taking them out to dinner, instead of inviting them over to your house so soon. Next time someone wants there little fix with you, just say I won't get involved if they are not single. I seem to think that the woman in question is feeling quilty about her behavior. I think that she wants to stay with her bf. If it were me I would just leave her alone. Besides that, do you really want to always hearing about that guy.