Psy,
I was just thinking about that today...What if I would run into him? How would I feel? What would my reaction be? This thought came to me as I was leaving class at the university, and I actually visualized the whole scenario. You know what? I wouldn't react; I would feel NOTHING!!! I could barely acknowledge him! This was how it played out in my mind. Why???
Because he moved on happily, not suffering at all, while I have worked my *** off to recover! And am still doing so.
My grandpa used to say, "Don't cast your pearls before swine." That is what I did, and even the prolonged thoughts of him are perpetuating that. I deserve better, and so do you!
Another thing which comes to mind, is that this girl may be intrigued by your apparent indifference to her, after showing her how much you cared. Beware.
Seeker