Thanks everyone I have tried setting boundaries with these kids before but it seemed to go in one ear and out the other and I'm to the point I don't want them over at my place at all and just their voices annoy the crap out of me now. Its horrible. The one ltl boy says that my son is his best friend and I don't want to ruin their friendship bcz of something I did. There are even times my son will tell me they are not allowed over anymore bcz he gets tired of having to clean up the messes alone. For me its just easier to never let them in. I just get so anxious when ppl are around and in my home. I get panick attacks when they start knocking on my door. Anyway thanks for the advice.