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Old Sep 25, 2009, 11:58 AM
Dazed and Confused Dazed and Confused is offline
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Originally Posted by chaotic13 View Post
My T never mentioned anything about how many sessions I would need or any type of time line. If she had, I would have taken it literally and would have had trouble.I remember being confused after my first few sessions because my T really did immediately whip out her schedule book. I wasn't sure if she wanted or thought it would be good for me to come in again. NOW I see this as her leaving the decison to return totally up to me-- she provided no external influence. Since I had no idea what the authentic me wanted at that point it was really hard. But I think it was important for me to know that I was the one who was in control.

Thanks for your comment. I'm just now figuring out that my T doesn't hate me and might even like me okay. I've always seen her every 2, 3, or 4 weeks based on her suggestions like when would like to come back...2 or 3 wks? Which I always say okay. My last visit I learned that she would like to see me more often, but didn't think I would go for it. I just assumed she didn't want to see me more frequently and I think she was assuming I wouldn't agree to see her more frequently. Something to discuss with her in a couple of weeks! Funny, huh, how easily miscommunication occurs.