I want my wife me to hold me accountable and give me more structure and discipline in my life by providing me a list of chores, rules, goals, and behaviors that need changed. These would be enforced by loss of privileges, groundings, and spankings.
I’m generally self motivated, and a good husband, but there are some areas I’d like to improve upon.
I’ve seen the lifestyle I want to try on the internet at The Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC).
My wife is concerned that somehow this goes back to the lack of discipline in my childhood, and if I do this that I’ll screw up my mind. I was spanked as a child until age 13 after which my parents ignored me and I did as I pleased.
Although I could see how she'd be concerned, I don't look at my wife as a parent. I see her as my best friend and coach.
Should we try it spanking and other discipline methods and see how it works or is that dangerous?