i voted yes to spanking, but not in a context of punishment. Thats why i also voted no. Spanking can be arousing for some people during sex if spanked in the right way i guess. I think you should talk to your wife about this. If it is a fantasy issue then see a sex therapist counsellor not because its wrong or bad.just too get advice. Buy the way i never did understand why they call then sex therapists its not like they have sex with you.