My youngest daughter (Crash) is absolutely unmanageable today! Her sister got to go spend the night with their cousin (who is almost a year younger than our oldest). Because of the age differences, Crash is staying home. Personally, I don't think it's fair, but it wasn't my call. I don't think we can have Bug go without Crash anymore, but I worry how Crash would behave being the "third wheel" or "odd man out". She is being evaluated on Oct 6, and of the two girls I think she is the one who will need medication, but I am not the doctor either. And it's not that I am going "right to meds" with her, but even if I can get her calmed down, her dad is already mad and tends to stir the pot and get her upset again...I just can't seem to keep the peace here. I understand that her refusing to do as asked and throwing a tantrum (with the crying and screaming) upsets HIM, but what the heck? I am just at a loss of what to do? Home is always great tension!