I have 2 girls 7and 11. I would imagine she's really feeling left out and mad. My 7 yr old gets very angry when my oldest chooses to go off on her own with a friend.
Next time when your daughter's not included explain to her that you and she will do something special together - one on one time. I don't know if it's to late to try this now. Maybe go to the park together, movies(if not too expensive), make some cookies or go to the dollar store and do a craft project. The whole idea is you want to take the focus off her feeling left out and re-focus, that this is an opportunity for quality mother/daughter time. My youngest sometimes feels she's getting the short end fot he stick because the older one gets to do more things. I know parenting can be very frustrating sometimes but in the end it's all worth it. Try to think how she feels. I hope this helps.
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