See its not about me, its about my family. I choose not to worry about the extreme future. Ok the kidney could either go to myself or to little johnny. And maybe little Johnny will be a president or something someday. What about my babies? my life stopped being about me the moment i conceived. They need me, not little johnny. and it sucks that it goes that way... but that is also why my whole family is undergoing testing to donate. Do you have children?