Told my husband that i couldnt do it anymore a couple of years ago and now he is living with someone else and i am calmer and happier and planning to marry again. You have to speak up, the frustration will only grow, i tried and tried but in the end i had to say enough is enough ~ sounds like you are at that point too. Dont let yourself be suffocated by a relationship that is not working anymore. I still love my ex, but it has been very much spoilt by frustration and resentment over time.
If you really want things to change you need to take control, he wont go unless you tell him to, he is clinging to this relationship. He needs to find himself a place to go so you can both get on and live life the way you want to ~ and find someone who will appreciate you and hopefully one that doesnt wanna watch the damn sports channels all night ~ my ex did that too ~ soooo boring!
I hope you can work things out soon and be happy. 
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