So you think that even the fact that it's joking it's not appropriate? I tell him that all the time but he still does it. I used to think it was just his sense of humour but then he moved in and it really is that way. I really do all the cleaning, dishes and cooking. The only time he helps is if I'm in the cleaning mode and I'm running around doing everything then he'll help for a few minutes but that's it.

I'm starting grad school in May of next year so (if it even lasts that long) that's when it will definitely be over. I don't want to make him look for a place that will only make the lease for like 8 months or something and he doesn't really have any place else to stay so I can't just kick him out. but my investment in this relationship is pretty much done.