it sounds like he probably comes from a family with very traditional gender roles. that's fine if both people want to live that way. i really don't see why you should take care of him for the next 8 months. can you guys go to counseling thru your school? if you're totally over the relationship then i'd tell him to leave. i'm sure he'll manage just fine. he did before you came along so he'll do it again. actions speak louder than words (especially with men) and if you let him stay you are showing him what he's doing is sort of ok after all. giving him some consequences to deal with will hopefully wake him up a bit to realize that most women these days do not think this is acceptable behavior. also, you will probably just become even more resentful having him around taking up space in your place, life, and heart.