I'm sorry. I didn't mean to shake you up.
I simply have no tolerance for that kind of humor. And I know that you may not have read many of my posts but if anyone has a sense of humor it's me. However, I will not tolerate someone demeaning me in any way. But that's just me. I was married to a guy who would make demeaning jokes about me in front of friends because he knew that I would not start an argument in that setting. The jokes were a little too personal. This was a passive-agressive maneuver that was just plain mean. But I guess it's also personal with me.
I understand your reasoning for letting him stay. I apologize if I came on too strong. My concern is for any permanent relationship with this guy. He has serious issues. He also is very immature. I truly feel you will regret sticking with him.
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Vickie
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