Vett, I am sorry you have had such a bad weekend, and that you feel the need to take a break from here. I am also tired of the lies and mind games on here, but I have come to accept that the "perfect" family or community is an impossible dream and there will never be a place which has a totally healthy environment. All we can strive for is to make our lives and those we are involved with as healthy and happy as we can ... and try to be there for people who are struggling. I feel as if this is turning into a lecture, which is not my style at all, and which I know you don't need.

I will definitely miss you here, I find your posts informative and insightful, and I have loved our chats. I think this board has been more than an escape ... but I respect your feelings. I hope you decide to return before too long.

Take care,
Fuzzy