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Sep 26, 2009, 09:26 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: New York
Posts: 352
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It was good that she was adopted today because that means whoever adopted her really cared and wanted someone. No you are not irresponsible because you went through all of the steps and procedures, took off all of your meds to keep the baby healthy. It does not matter that you got pregnat, what matters now is that she is ok and is now adopted, you are ok and have survived the pregnancy.
Look how far you've made it through life.
I have found a birth mother support group site for both emotional and social support. If you would like to, you can check out this link:
http://www.birthmotherresources.com/birth_mother/birth_mother_adoption_support_groups.htm
I think that it would be good if you could seek people who are/have been in this position. It is more likely to seek people who are going through the same issue because then you may feel more validated and can talk to others for better support.
Please do not cut. It's only a short time relief and is not worth it in the long run. Please call someone, talk to a nurse/doctor, try to get through this.
I care so much about you and don't want to see you like this. Remember that everyone is a special person, because everyone has something good to offer to everyone.
Feel free to call, e-mail, PM me anything, just ask because I'm here for you,
dance59326
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"Life is like photography, you use the negatives to develop"
"When the world says 'Give up,' Hope whispers 'Try it one more time'" ~ Unknown
"To dwell in the here and the now does not mean you never think about the past or responsibility, plan for the future. The idea is simply not to allow yourself to get lost in regrets about past or worries about the past or worries about the future. If you are firmly in the present moment, the past can be an object of inquiry, the object of your mindfulness by looking into the past, but you are still grounded in the present moment"
 Thich Nhat Hanh
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